Working Mom, Waking Mom.
I have come up with a way to rediscover “free time”, that ever elusive treasure to Moms, getting up very early in the morning. How early? Well, there are mornings I rise at 4:30 a.m. I hope that doesn’t make anyone wince. Every day I try to sneak in a couple extra minutes in the morning that are dedicated to me. I am not claiming that these are particularly high functioning events. I spend this time in a variety of ways; exercising, catching up on e-mails, preparing a meal for the evening, or simply just having quiet time. This is precious to me as it refuels my tanks and allows me summon the energy to move on through the day. I started carving out these little moments because I didn’t like rushing around in the morning, and let’s face it, there is a lot to do in the morning. Packing lunches, making breakfast, picking out clothes, cajoling my husband and daughter out of bed, taking the dog out, getting myself dressed and ready, bargaining with my daughter about what she is going to wear…you get the idea. I began to reclaim activities for myself during these early morning hours before anyone else was up. I set my alarm a little earlier. I look forward to getting things done. I remember my own mother doing this, and in my teen years thinking she was utterly ridiculous. Why would you get up earlier than you have to? But like so many “mom” habits, now I understand her need for those few minutes of sanctuary from her family. I am a lark by nature, as opposed to an owl, so rising before the sun has been a good fit. On occasion I even throw back the covers before the alarm goes off. It’s a routine now, crazy as it sounds it works for me. We would love to hear what you do to replenish your energy, what sort of routine keeps you tethered to your sense of well being. Feel welcome to share your story, or ask for ideas.
I have come up with a way to rediscover “free time”, that ever elusive treasure to Moms, getting up very early in the morning. How early? Well, there are mornings I rise at 4:30 a.m. I hope that doesn’t make anyone wince. Every day I try to sneak in a couple extra minutes in the morning that are dedicated to me. I am not claiming that these are particularly high functioning events. I spend this time in a variety of ways; exercising, catching up on e-mails, preparing a meal for the evening, or simply just having quiet time. This is precious to me as it refuels my tanks and allows me summon the energy to move on through the day. I started carving out these little moments because I didn’t like rushing around in the morning, and let’s face it, there is a lot to do in the morning. Packing lunches, making breakfast, picking out clothes, cajoling my husband and daughter out of bed, taking the dog out, getting myself dressed and ready, bargaining with my daughter about what she is going to wear…you get the idea. I began to reclaim activities for myself during these early morning hours before anyone else was up. I set my alarm a little earlier. I look forward to getting things done. I remember my own mother doing this, and in my teen years thinking she was utterly ridiculous. Why would you get up earlier than you have to? But like so many “mom” habits, now I understand her need for those few minutes of sanctuary from her family. I am a lark by nature, as opposed to an owl, so rising before the sun has been a good fit. On occasion I even throw back the covers before the alarm goes off. It’s a routine now, crazy as it sounds it works for me. We would love to hear what you do to replenish your energy, what sort of routine keeps you tethered to your sense of well being. Feel welcome to share your story, or ask for ideas.
Hi Maggie,
ReplyDeleteI am also an early morning riser. I love the time of day before the sun comes up when the world is utterly fresh and so am I. I love the first light and the promise of the new day and the solitude. For me it's a time of reflection and appreciation. I am an introvert by nature and without some alone time every day I get drained.
I'm willing to bet that most Moms end their day with "me" time, when they are exhausted. I like your idea better. Instead of wishing the day away to get to your personal time, you create your time first and then are free to invest in everyone else. Thanks for your insight.
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